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Etiquette questions are easy to answer.\u00a0First observe the people you are interested in and want to talk to in a friendly and sincere manner, give friendly and sincere greetings, and give compliments, and then quickly give the other party a courtesy question, which is directly related to the compliment you give.\u00a0For example: “Your ring is so beautiful! What kind of diamond is this?” or “You are great skating! Where did you learn?”<\/p>
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The second way to break the deadlock is to pay attention to those who have something in their hands and ask some questions about it.\u00a0He may be holding an instrument.\u00a0You can ask him what kind of music he likes to play, where he learned it, how long he has played or how to get started.\u00a0If you see someone who is taking pictures, you can ask him what brand of camera he is using, is it professional or amateur, etc.<\/p>
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The third way to break the deadlock is to make comments or ask questions based on the situation at the time.\u00a0If you see someone who seems to be asking for help, you can provide help. This is a great way for you to start a conversation. At this point you can say: “You seem to be lost, where are you looking?\u00a0Do you? I live near here, maybe I can help you.”<\/p>
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In addition to requesting or offering help, another way to start a conversation is to express your opinion about what you have observed. It is better to talk about positive things than to complain about negative things.<\/p>
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Etiquette questions can be used to break deadlocks and elicit conversations. By observing what people are doing and talking about, you can easily find topics that interest others.<\/p>
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Best time to introduce yourself: Generally speaking, the later you introduce yourself, others will feel uncomfortable, so it is best to take the initiative to introduce yourself as soon as possible.\u00a0During the pause in the conversation, you should seize this good opportunity to say: “By the way, my name is…what do you call it?” Others generally respond friendly.Then you can ask another question or comment on what other people have told you so that your conversation will start and continue.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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