{"id":20,"date":"2021-01-12T10:38:39","date_gmt":"2021-01-12T02:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/first-use-body-language-to-draw-closer-to-each-other\/"},"modified":"2021-01-12T10:38:39","modified_gmt":"2021-01-12T02:38:39","slug":"first-use-body-language-to-draw-closer-to-each-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/en\/first-use-body-language-to-draw-closer-to-each-other\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5148\u7528\u80a2\u4f53\u8bed\u8a00\u62c9\u8fd1\u5f7c\u6b64\u8ddd\u79bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6109\u5feb\u7684\u4ea4\u8c08\u662f\u5927\u5bb6\u90fd\u611f\u5174\u8da3\u7684\u4ea4\u8c08\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pleasant conversation is one that everyone is interested in. <\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u9996\u5148\u7528\u80a2\u4f53\u8bed\u8a00\u62c9\u8fd1\u5f7c\u6b64\u8ddd\u79bb\uff0c\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4ea4\u8c08\u6280\u5de7\u4e4b\u4e00\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u8bed\u8a00\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u3002\u80a2\u4f53\u8bed\u8a00\u53cd\u6620\u4e86\u6211\u4eec\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u63a5\u53d7\u5ea6\u3002(\u5982\u53cc\u81c2\u4ea4\u53c9\uff0c\u6ca1\u6709\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c\u6ca1\u6709\u5fae\u7b11)\u8fd9\u4e9b\u90fd\u65e0\u6cd5\u6301\u4e45\u4ea4\u6d41\u7684\u539f\u56e0\u6240\u5728\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First use body language to draw closer to each other. One of the most important conversation skills is not language, but our body. Body language reflects our acceptance of others. (Such as arms crossed, no eye contact, no smile) These are the reasons why you can&#8217;t communicate for a long time.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8f6f\u5316(softener\uff09\u6bcf\u4e2a\u5b57\u6bcd\u90fd\u4ee3\u8868\u4e00\u4e2a\u6109\u5feb\u4ea4\u6d41\u7684\u5143\u7d20\uff0c\u5fae\u7b11\uff0c\u5f20\u5f00\u53cc\u81c2\uff0c\u8eab\u5b50\u524d\u503e\uff0c\u63a5\u89e6\u3002\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\uff0c\u70b9\u5934\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Softener each letter represents an element of pleasant communication, smile, open arms, lean forward, touch. Make eye contact and nod.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u5fae\u7b11\u65f6\uff0c\u610f\u5473\u7740\u4f60\u4ee5\u4e00\u79cd\u79ef\u6781\u7684\u6001\u5ea6\u6ce8\u610f\u5230\u4e86\u4ed6\u4eba\uff0c\u800c\u4ed6\u4eba\u4f1a\u8ba4\u4e3a\u4f60\u7684\u5fae\u7b11\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u606d\u7ef4\uff0c\u8ba9\u4ed6\u611f\u89c9\u5f88\u597d\uff0c\u5fae\u7b11\u53ef\u4ee5\u5c55\u793a\u4f60\u70ed\u60c5\u5f00\u653e\u7684\u4ea4\u8c08\u6001\u5ea6\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u53d1\u51fa\u7684\u662f\u53cb\u597d\u7684\u4fe1\u53f7\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4f60\u5c06\u6536\u5230\u53cb\u597d\u7684\u4fe1\u53f7\uff0c\u5fae\u7b11\u8868\u793a\u4f60\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eba\u6574\u4f53\u7684\u6b23\u8d4f\uff0c\u8fd9\u6837\u5bf9\u65b9\u4f1a\u611f\u89c9\u5f88\u597d\uff0c\u5e76\u66f4\u4e50\u610f\u4e0e\u4f60\u4ea4\u8c08\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you smile, it means that you noticed others with a positive attitude, and others will think that your smile is a compliment, making him feel good, smiling can show your warm and open conversation attitude. If you are sending a friendly signal, then you will receive a friendly signal. A smile indicates your overall appreciation for the other person, so that the other person will feel good and more willing to talk to you.<\/p>    <div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">  <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f20\u5f00\u7684\u53cc\u81c2\uff1a\u4eba\u4eec\u7ecf\u5e38\u4ee5\u4e00\u4e2a\u81ea\u5df1\u89c9\u5f97\u8212\u670d\u7684\u59ff\u52bf\u4e0e\u4eba\u4ea4\u8c08\uff0c\u800c\u5ffd\u7565\u4e86\u5bf9\u65b9\u63a5\u53d7\u5230\u7684\u80a2\u4f53\u8bed\u8a00\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u5982\u53cc\u624b\u4ea4\u53c9\u653e\u5728\u540e\u8111\u52fa\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u7528\u4e00\u53ea\u624b\u81c2\u6491\u7740\u4e0b\u5df4\uff0c\u597d\u50cf\u5728\u601d\u8003\uff0c\u5047\u60f3\u770b\u5230\u8fd9\u6837\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\uff0c\u4f60\u4f1a\u53bb\u6253\u6270\u4e00\u4e2a\u6b63\u5728\u601d\u8003\u7684\u4eba\u5417\uff1f\u518d\u6216\u8005\u53cc\u624b\u5728\u80f8\u524d\u4ea4\u53c9\uff0c\u8fd9\u6837\u90fd\u4f1a\u611f\u89c9\u4f60\u5bf9\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u8c08\u8bdd\u4e0d\u611f\u5174\u8da3\u4e0d\u8010\u70e6\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u8d28\u7591\uff0c\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u4e0d\u559c\u6b22\u88ab\u4eba\u8bef\u89e3\u548c\u6000\u7591\uff0c\u4ece\u800c\u5c31\u8ba9\u5bf9\u65b9\u4e0d\u613f\u610f\u6301\u4e45\u7684\u4ea4\u6d41\u4e0b\u53bb\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u8981\u6253\u5f00\u4f60\u7684\u53cc\u81c2\uff0c\u5c31\u50cf\u53c2\u52a0\u805a\u4f1a\uff0c\u5f20\u5f00\u53cc\u81c2\u7684\u4eba\u6b22\u8fce\u4f60\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u4f60\u4f1a\u611f\u5230\u5f88\u53cb\u597d\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Open arms: People often talk to people in a position that they feel comfortable with, and ignore the body language they receive, such as placing their hands on the back of their heads or supporting their chin with one arm. It seems to be thinking. If you see such a person, would you disturb someone who is thinking? If you cross your hands on your chest, you will feel that you are not interested and impatient with other people&#8217;s conversation, or it is a kind of questioning. Everyone does not like to be misunderstood and doubted, which makes the other person unwilling to continue to communicate. So open your arms, just like attending a party and people with open arms welcome you, you will feel very friendly.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8eab\u5b50\u5fae\u5fae\u524d\u503e\uff1a\u4fbf\u662f\u4f60\u5bf9\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u8c08\u8bdd\u5f88\u611f\u5174\u8da3\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u542c\u7684\u5f88\u8ba4\u771f\uff0c\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eba\u6765\u8bf4\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u606d\u7ef4\uff0c\u4ed6\u5c06\u5f88\u4e50\u610f\u7ee7\u7eed\u4e0e\u4f60\u4ea4\u6d41\u3002\u56e0\u6b64\u8eab\u4f53\u540e\u503e\u5219\u4e0d\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4eba\u60f3\u7ee7\u7eed\u4ea4\u8c08\u4e0b\u53bb\u3002\u4f46\u662f\u9700\u8981\u6ce8\u610f\u8ddd\u79bb\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u9760\u7684\u592a\u8fd1\uff0c\u592a\u5feb\u4fb5\u72af\u5230\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u79c1\u4eba\u7a7a\u95f4\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lean forward slightly: It means that you are very interested in the conversation of the other person and listen very carefully. It is also a compliment to others, and he will be happy to continue communicating with you. Therefore, leaning back does not make people want to continue talking. But you need to pay attention to the distance, don&#8217;t get too close, or invade other people&#8217;s private space too quickly.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u63a5\u89e6\uff1a\u5728\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u6587\u5316\u4e2d\uff0c\u4e24\u4e2a\u521d\u6b21\u89c1\u9762\u7684\u4eba\u6700\u5bb9\u6613\u63a5\u89e6\u7684\u5c31\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u70ed\u60c5\u7684\u63e1\u624b\u3002\u548c\u4ed6\u4eba\u6253\u62db\u547c\u7684\u65f6\u5019\u4e3b\u52a8\u4f38\u51fa\u4f60\u7684\u624b\uff0c\u5e76\u5e26\u7740\u5fae\u7b11\uff0c\u4ecb\u7ecd\u51fa\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u8fd9\u662f\u8fc8\u51fa\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b65\u3002\u6709\u4e9b\u7537\u6027\u5bf9\u5f02\u6027\u4e0d\u597d\u610f\u601d\u4e3b\u52a8\u4f38\u624b\uff0c\u6015\u88ab\u62d2\u7edd\u6ca1\u6709\u9762\u5b50\uff0c\u5176\u5b9e\u4e0d\u7ba1\u662f\u7537\u6027\u8fd8\u662f\u5973\u6027\uff0c\u5ffd\u7565\u6216\u8005\u62d2\u7edd\u8fd9\u79cd\u53cb\u597d\u7684\u63e1\u624b\u90fd\u662f\u4e0d\u793c\u8c8c\u7684\u3002\u6709\u4e9b\u5973\u6027\u4e5f\u89c9\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u5148\u4e3b\u52a8\u4f38\u51fa\u624b\u663e\u5f97\u592a\u4e3b\u52a8\u4e86\uff0c\u5bb9\u6613\u8ba9\u4eba\u4ea7\u751f\u9519\u8bef\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u5c31\u6210\u95ee\u9898\u4e86\uff0c\u4f46\u5728\u8c03\u67e5\u95ee\u5377\u5927\u591a\u6570\u4eba\u90fd\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u4e0d\u7ba1\u8c01\u5148\u4f38\u51fa\u624b\u51e0\u4e4e\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u559c\u6b22\u8fd9\u79cd\u5f62\u5f0f\u7684\u8eab\u4f53\u63a5\u89e6\u3002\u5f53\u4eba\u4eec\u521d\u6b21\u89c1\u9762\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u4e00\u4e2a\u53cb\u597d\u7684\u63e1\u624b\uff0c\u540c\u65f6\u9762\u5e26\u5fae\u7b11\uff0c\u70ed\u60c5\u7684\u95ee\u597d\u662f\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u8ba9\u4eba\u63a5\u53d7\u7684\u63a5\u89e6\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002\u8fd9\u79cd\u63a5\u89e6\u5bf9\u4e8e\u53cc\u65b9\u90fd\u662f\u5b89\u5168\u548c\u4e0d\u53d7\u4fb5\u72af\u7684\uff0c\u5b83\u964d\u4f4e\u4e86\u4e2a\u4eba\u9632\u5907\u610f\u8bc6\uff0c\u5e76\u4e3a\u53cc\u65b9\u4ea4\u8c08\u521b\u9020\u4e86\u4e00\u4e2a\u5e73\u7b49\u800c\u4e92\u76f8\u5c0a\u91cd\u7684\u4ea4\u8c08\u6c14\u6c1b\u3002\u5927\u591a\u6570\u7684\u4e2a\u4eba\u63a5\u89e6\u65b9\u5f0f\u90fd\u5e94\u8be5\u8003\u8651\u5230\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u6587\u5316\uff0c\u4e0d\u4fb5\u72af\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002\u53cb\u597d\u70ed\u60c5\u7684\u7ed3\u675f\u4ea4\u8c08\u4e5f\u5f88\u91cd\u8981\uff0c\u201c\u5f88\u9ad8\u5174\u4e0e\u4f60\u4ea4\u8c08\u201d\u201c\u5e0c\u671b\u6211\u4eec\u80fd\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u89c1\u9762\u201d<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Contact: In our culture, the easiest thing for two people to meet for the first time is a warm handshake. When you greet others, take the initiative to extend your hand and introduce yourself with a smile. This is the first step. Some men feel embarrassed about the opposite sex and take the initiative to stretch out their hands for fear of being rejected. In fact, whether they are men or women, it is impolite to ignore or refuse such friendly handshake. Some women also feel that they are too proactive to reach out first, and it is easy for people to have wrong ideas, so it becomes a problem, but most people in the questionnaire think that no matter who reaches out first, almost everyone likes this form. Physical contact. When people meet for the first time, a friendly handshake with a smile on their faces and warm greetings are very acceptable ways of contact. This contact is safe and inviolable for both parties. It reduces personal defense awareness and creates an equal and respectful conversation atmosphere for both parties. Most personal contact methods should take into account the other&#8217;s culture and not infringe on others&#8217; methods. It\u2019s also important to end the conversation in a friendly and enthusiastic manner, &#8220;It\u2019s nice to talk to you&#8221; and &#8220;I hope we can meet together&#8221;<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\uff1a\u8981\u81ea\u53d1\u6027\u7684\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u88ab\u8feb\u7684\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u592a\u8fc7\u4e8e\u4e3b\u52a8\u7684\uff0c\u5728\u4ea4\u6d41\u7684\u8fc7\u7a0b\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u6700\u597d\u4e2d\u95f4\u6709\u77ed\u6682\u7684\u95f4\u9694\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u89c2\u5bdf\u5bf9\u65b9\u8138\u90e8\u5176\u4ed6\u90e8\u4f4d\uff0c\u7279\u522b\u662f\u5634\uff0c\u5f53\u522b\u4eba\u5bf9\u4f60\u5fae\u7b11\u65f6\u8981\u62a5\u4ee5\u5fae\u7b11\uff0c\u518d\u56de\u5230\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\u4e2d\u3002\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u8ba9\u4f60\u7684\u76ee\u5149\u626b\u8fc7\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u8138\u90e8\u5934\u53d1\u9f3b\u5b50\u5634\u5df4\u5305\u62ec\u8033\u5ed3\uff0c\u8fc7\u4e00\u4f1a\u518d\u56de\u5230\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u773c\u775b\uff0c\u4e24\u53ea\u773c\u775b\u6765\u56de\u770b\u3002\u9003\u907f\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\u4f1a\u4f7f\u4ea4\u6d41\u53cc\u65b9\u611f\u5230\u7d27\u5f20\u548c\u4e0d\u8212\u670d\uff0c\u7ed9\u4eba\u611f\u89c9\u4f60\u5bf9\u4ea4\u8c08\u4e0d\u611f\u5174\u8da3\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eye contact: Be spontaneous, not forced, or too proactive. During the process of eye contact, it\u2019s best to have a short interval in between, and you can observe other parts of the opponent\u2019s face, especially the mouth , Smile when others smile at you, and then return to eye contact. You can also let your eyes sweep across the opponent&#8217;s face, hair, nose, mouth, and auricles, then return to the opponent&#8217;s eyes after a while, and look back and forth with both eyes. Avoiding eye contact can make both parties feel nervous and uncomfortable, and make people feel that you are not interested in talking.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u70b9\u5934\uff1a\u8fd9\u662f\u8d5e\u540c\u7684\u4fe1\u53f7\uff0c\u5f88\u7406\u89e3\u5bf9\u65b9\u8bf4\u7684\uff0c\u5927\u8857\u4e0a\u6253\u62db\u547c\u53ef\u4ee5\u70b9\u5934\u5fae\u7b11\uff0c\u5e76\u53cb\u597d\u7684\u8bf4\u4f60\u597d\u3002\u5355\u7eaf\u7684\u51dd\u89c6\u6ca1\u6709\u70b9\u5934\u8868\u660e\u4f60\u597d\u50cf\u6b63\u5728\u60f3\u522b\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nodding: This is a sign of agreement. I understand what the other person said. You can nod and smile when you say hello on the street and say hello in a friendly way. Simply staring without nodding indicates that you seem to be thinking about something else.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u80a2\u4f53\u8bed\u8a00+\u8bed\u8c03+\u7528\u8bcd=\u6574\u4f53\u6c9f\u901a \u8d85\u8fc7\u4e09\u5206\u4e4b\u4e8c\u7684\u9762\u5bf9\u9762\u4ea4\u6d41\u662f\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u80a2\u4f53\u8bed\u8a00\u4e3a\u57fa\u7840\u7684\u3002\u52a0\u4e0a\u4f60\u8bf4\u8bdd\u7684\u7528\u8bcd\u548c\u8bed\u8c03\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u52a0\u8d77\u6765\u7ec4\u6210\u6574\u4f53\u6c9f\u901a\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Body language + intonation + words = overall communication More than two-thirds of face-to-face communication is based on a person&#8217;s body language. Add your words and intonation, and they add up to form the overall communication.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u53c2\u52a0\u4e00\u4e2a\u9e21\u5c3e\u9152\u821e\u4f1a\uff0c\u53c2\u52a0\u7684\u4eba\u4f60\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8ba4\u8bc6\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u4f60\u5927\u5bb6\u90fd\u8ba4\u8bc6\uff0c\u8981\u600e\u4e48\u63a5\u89e6\u7136\u540e\u5f00\u59cb\u4ea4\u8c08\u5462\uff1f\u53ef\u4ee5\u63d0\u524d\u6d4f\u89c8\u4e00\u4e9b\u65f6\u5c1a\u6742\u5fd7\u548c\u62a5\u7eb8\uff0c\u8bfb\u4e00\u8bfb\u4e0d\u5e73\u5e38\u6216\u8005\u6709\u8da3\u7684\u6545\u4e8b\uff0c\u5bfb\u627e\u821e\u4f1a\u4e0a\u53ef\u80fd\u611f\u5174\u8da3\u7684\u8bdd\u9898\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u81ea\u5df1\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u7ecf\u5386\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eba\u5206\u4eab\u3002\u8bb0\u4f4f\uff0c\u4f60\u643a\u5e26\u7684\u201c\u4ea4\u8c08\u6750\u6599\u201d\u8d8a\u591a\u8d8a\u5bb9\u6613\u6253\u7834\u50f5\u5c40\u3002\u5f53\u4f60\u8fdb\u5165\u623f\u95f4\u770b\u5230\u5927\u5bb6\u8c08\u7b11\u98ce\u751f\u7684\u90fd\u50cf\u54e5\u4eec\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u5176\u5b9e\u4e5f\u8bb8\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e5f\u662f\u51e0\u5206\u949f\u524d\u521a\u521a\u8ba4\u8bc6\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4e0d\u8981\u4ee5\u4e3a\u4f60\u662f\u552f\u4e00\u7684\u5c40\u5916\u4eba\u3002\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528\u8db3\u591f\u7684\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\u53bb\u5bfb\u627e\u4eba\u7fa4\u4e2d\u8868\u73b0\u51fa\u5f88\u53cb\u597d\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u7136\u540e\u8d70\u8fd1\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u8bb0\u5f97\u5bf9\u65b9\u540d\u5b57\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u79f0\u547c\u5bf9\u65b9\u540d\u5b57\uff0c\u8bf4\uff1a\u4f60\u597d\uff0c\u6700\u8fd1\u600e\u4e48\u6837\uff1f\u6216\u8005\u4f60\u597d\u6709\u9635\u5b50\u6ca1\u6709\u770b\u5230\u4f60\u4e86\uff0c\u8fc7\u7684\u8fd8\u597d\u5417\uff1f\u6211\u53eb&#8230;\u3002\u5f53\u4f60\u5728\u821e\u4f1a\u9047\u5230\u4e00\u4e2a\u5b8c\u5168\u964c\u751f\u7684\u4eba\u65f6\uff0c\u6253\u7834\u50f5\u5c40\u7684\u6700\u5bb9\u6613\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u5c31\u662f\u8fdb\u884c\u81ea\u6211\u4ecb\u7ecd\uff0c\u5e76\u8bb2\u8ff0\u4f60\u662f\u600e\u4e48\u548c\u4e3b\u4eba\u8ba4\u8bc6\u7684\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you attend a cocktail party, you don\u2019t know any of the people attending it, except you know everyone. How do you get in touch and start talking? You can browse some fashion magazines and newspapers in advance, read unusual or interesting stories, look for topics that may be of interest to the party, or share experiences in your life with others. Remember, the more &#8220;talking materials&#8221; you carry, the easier it is to break the deadlock. When you enter the room, everyone is talking and laughing like buddies. In fact, maybe they met just a few minutes ago, so don&#8217;t think you are the only outsider. You can use enough eye contact to find a friendly person in the crowd, and then approach, if you remember the other person&#8217;s name, you can call the other person by name and say: hello, how are you doing? Or you haven&#8217;t seen you for a while, how are you doing? My name is\u2026. 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