{"id":260,"date":"2021-01-29T13:59:29","date_gmt":"2021-01-29T05:59:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/what-makes-people-happy\/"},"modified":"2021-01-29T13:59:29","modified_gmt":"2021-01-29T05:59:29","slug":"what-makes-people-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/en\/what-makes-people-happy\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201c\u5230\u5e95\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u4fc3\u4f7f\u4eba\u5feb\u4e50\uff1f\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u547d\u8fd0\uff0c\u4f1a\u81ea\u7136\u4f2a\u88c5\u6210\u67d0\u4e2a\u65f6\u523b\uff0c\u53bb\u6f20\u89c6\u4f60\u5f53\u524d\u7684\u65e5\u7a0b\u5b89\u6392\u3002\u4ece\u800c\u5bf9\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u65b9\u5411\u6784\u6210\u5fc5\u8981\u7684\u8c03\u6574\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5076\u5c14\u53d1\u751f\u7684\u610f\u60f3\u4e0d\u5230\u7684\u5e72\u6270\u4f1a\u4ea7\u751f\u53ef\u559c\u7684\u6548\u679c\uff0c\u5e2e\u52a9\u4f60\u91cd\u65b0\u786e\u7acb\u4eba\u751f\u8f68\u8ff9\u3002\u5f53\u7136\uff0c\u6709\u65f6\u8fd9\u4e9b\u8c03\u6574\u540e\u7684\u6548\u679c\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5f88\u5feb\u663e\u73b0\u51fa\u6765\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Destiny, naturally masquerading as a moment, disregards your current schedule. To make the necessary adjustments to the direction of your life. These occasional and unexpected interruptions can have a welcome effect, helping you reorient your life. Of course, sometimes the effects of these adjustments aren&#8217;t immediately apparent.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f53\u4f60\u79f0\u8d5e\u3001\u9f13\u52b1\u5e76\u5e2e\u52a9\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u4f1a\u4fc3\u4f7f\u4f60\u5efa\u7acb\u66f4\u5f3a\u5927\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u7f51\u7edc\u3002\u4f60\u6bcf\u6b21\u8fd9\u6837\u505a\uff0c\u90fd\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u6295\u8d44\uff0c\u4ece\u6765\u4e0d\u4f1a\u662f\u4e00\u79cd\u6d6a\u8d39\u3002\u6709\u4e00\u79cd\u89c4\u5219\uff0c\u89c4\u5b9a\u7740\u9f13\u52b1\u4e0e\u98ce\u9669\u7684\u539f\u5219\u3002\u5f53\u4f60\u4e3a\u4ed6\u4eba\u505a\u597d\u4e8b\uff0c\u8fd9\u4f1a\u6fc0\u53d1\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u4e92\u60e0\u7684\u613f\u671b\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u8f6c\u800c\u5e0c\u671b\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e3a\u4f60\u505a\u4e9b\u597d\u4e8b\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you praise, encourage, and help others, you build a stronger network of relationships. Every time you do this, it&#8217;s an investment. It&#8217;s never a waste. There is a rule that defines the principle of encouragement and risk. When you do good things for others, it will inspire their desire for reciprocity. Instead, they want to do something nice for you.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u56de\u5fc6\u8d77\u4f60\u4eba\u751f\u4e2d\u4e00\u5b9a\u6709\u67d0\u4e2a\u65f6\u523b\u5f97\u5230\u8fc7\u522b\u4eba\u7684\u5e2e\u52a9\u6216\u771f\u8bda\u7684\u6307\u5bfc\uff0c\u4ece\u800c\u8ba9\u4f60\u6ca1\u6709\u504f\u79bb\u4f60\u4eba\u751f\u6b63\u786e\u7684\u65b9\u5411\uff0c\u5c31\u50cf\u4f60\u8bb0\u5f97\u522b\u4eba\u5e2e\u4f60\u4e00\u6837\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5e2e\u52a9\u4e86\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u90a3\u522b\u4eba\u4e5f\u4e00\u5b9a\u8bb0\u5f97\u4f60\u5e2e\u52a9\u8fc7\u4ed6\u3002\u5f53\u4f60\u5e2e\u52a9\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u4f3c\u4e4e\u6c38\u8fdc\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5fd8\u8bb0\uff0c\u5e76\u4e00\u76f4\u60f3\u52aa\u529b\u627e\u673a\u4f1a\u53cd\u9988\u4e8e\u4f60\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember that there was a time in your life when you received help or genuine guidance from others that kept you from deviating from the right direction in your life. Just as you remember others for helping you, if you help them, they will remember you for helping them. When you help someone, they never seem to forget and are always trying to find the opportunity to give you back.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f60\u7684\u5bb6\u4eba\u548c\u670b\u53cb\u5f88\u50cf\u4f60\u811a\u4e0b\u7684\u978b\u3002\u4e0a\u5e1d\u5c06\u4ed6\u4eec\u4f5c\u4e3a\u793c\u7269\u9001\u7ed9\u4f60\uff0c\u4f60\u9700\u8981\u5f88\u957f\u65f6\u95f4\u53bb\u7ef4\u62a4\u4ed6\u4eec\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u9700\u8981\u597d\u597d\u7231\u62a4\u5e76\u5173\u5fc3\u5b83\u4eec\uff0c\u8fd9\u6837\u5b83\u4eec\u4e0d\u4f1a\u7a7f\u574f\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u4f1a\u8ba9\u4eba\u611f\u89c9\u6beb\u65e0\u4ef7\u503c\u3002\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u662f\u4e00\u7b14\u8d22\u5bcc\u3002\u5e0c\u671b\u4f60\u73cd\u60dc\u8fd9\u4e9b\u88ab\u8d50\u4e88\u7684\u793c\u7269\uff0c\u8ba9\u5b83\u4eec\u53d1\u51fa\u5149\u5f69\u3002\u5e76\u4e14\u5e0c\u671b\u4f60\u80fd\u53d1\u73b0\u81ea\u5df1\u6b63\u5728\u9057\u5931\u7684\u8d22\u5bcc\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your family and friends are a lot like the shoes on your feet. God gave them to you as gifts, and you need to maintain them for a long time. We need to take good care of them so they don&#8217;t wear out or feel worthless. A true friend is a treasure. May you cherish the gifts you have been given and let them shine. And hopefully you&#8217;ll find the treasure you&#8217;re missing.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u6709\u4e00\u9879\u5386\u7ecf25\u5e74\u7684\u7814\u7a76\uff0c\u201c\u5230\u5e95\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u4fc3\u4f7f\u4eba\u5feb\u4e50\u201d\uff0c\u7b54\u6848\u4e0d\u662f\u91d1\u94b1\u3001\u5730\u4f4d\u3001\u58f0\u8a89\u6216\u6027\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u201c\u611f\u6069\u4e0e\u7ed9\u4e88\u201d\u3002\u5f53\u4eba\u4eec\u56e0\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u62e5\u6709\u7684\u4e8b\u7269\u800c\u5fc3\u5b58\u611f\u6fc0\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u5f53\u4ed6\u4eec\u4ece\u5bb9\u4e0d\u8feb\u5730\u9009\u62e9\u4f5c\u4e3a\u7ed9\u4e88\u8005\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u5927\u8111\u4e2d\u4f1a\u91ca\u653e\u51fa\u4e00\u79cd\u5316\u5b66\u54c1\uff0c\u5176\u4ea7\u751f\u4e00\u79cd\u5e78\u798f\u611f\u3001\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u5e73\u8861\u4ee5\u53ca\u5bf9\u4e8e\u4e2a\u4eba\u91cd\u8981\u6027\u7684\u610f\u8bc6\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a 25-year study of what makes people happy, the answer isn&#8217;t money, status, fame or sex. It&#8217;s &#8220;gratitude and giving.&#8221; When people are grateful for what they have, or when they take their time to choose to be a giver, a chemical is released in the brain that produces a sense of well-being, inner balance, and personal importance.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4f1f\u5927\u7684\u6f14\u8bf4\u5bb6\u9f50\u683c\u00b7\u9f50\u683c\u62c9\u66fe\u8bf4\u8fc7\uff1a\u201c\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u80fd\u5e2e\u52a9\u4ed6\u4eba\u83b7\u5f97\u4ed6\u4eec\u60f3\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u62e5\u6709\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u4e00\u5207\u3002\u201d<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The great speaker Zig Ziegla once said, &#8220;You can have everything you want in life if you can help others get what they want.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u7ed9\u4e88\u662f\u5173\u952e\u6027\u529b\u91cf\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e0d\u53ef\u6216\u7f3a\u7684\u90e8\u5206\u3002\u6beb\u65e0\u6761\u4ef6\u5730\u7ed9\u4e88\u4f1a\u91ca\u653e\u51fa\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u4ece\u6765\u4e0d\u66fe\u6709\u8fc7\u7684\u5feb\u4e50\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5141\u8bb8\u81ea\u5df1\u88ab\u611a\u5f04\u5230\u4ec5\u4ec5\u8ffd\u9010\u90a3\u4e9b\u6240\u8c13\u7684\u5730\u4f4d\u3001\u6743\u529b\u548c\u91d1\u94b1\u7684\u8bdd\uff0c\u4f60\u5c06\u9519\u8fc7\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u8d22\u5bcc\uff0c\u8bf8\u5982\u548c\u7766\u3001\u5e78\u798f\u548c\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u6ee1\u8db3\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Giving is an integral part of critical power. Giving without conditions unleashes a joy you may never have had. If you allow yourself to be fooled into chasing only the so-called status, power and money, you will miss out on the real treasures of life, such as harmony, happiness and inner contentment.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4e16\u754c\u4f1a\u6270\u4e71\u5230\u4f60\u7684\u5fc3\u601d\uff0c\u4f60\u4e00\u4e0d\u5c0f\u5fc3\u5c31\u4f1a\u5fd8\u8bb0\u201c\u4f60\u662f\u8c01\u201d\uff0c\u6700\u7ec8\u4ee5\u4e0d\u592a\u597d\u7684\u547d\u8fd0\u7ed3\u5c40\u3002\u4f60\u6709\u6ca1\u6709\u6401\u4e0b\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u68a6\u60f3\u4e0e\u76ee\u6807\uff1f\u4f60\u6709\u6ca1\u6709\u6ee1\u8db3\u4e8e\u4e00\u79cd\u4f2a\u9020\u7684\u547d\u8fd0\uff1f<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The world will mess up your mind and you will forget &#8220;who you are&#8221; if you are not careful and end up with a bad fate. Have you put your dreams and goals on hold? 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