{"id":270,"date":"2021-01-30T08:55:27","date_gmt":"2021-01-30T00:55:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/dont-think-listen-for-key-words\/"},"modified":"2021-01-30T08:55:27","modified_gmt":"2021-01-30T00:55:27","slug":"dont-think-listen-for-key-words","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/en\/dont-think-listen-for-key-words\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4e0d\u8981\u601d\u8003\uff0c\u6ce8\u610f\u542c\u201c\u5173\u952e\u8bcd\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Etiquette questions are a natural, informal way to get some personal information. You can get to know the person very quickly without getting too specific. Etiquette questions can help you quickly decide if you want to get to know him better. It will also help you discover some personal background and give you the opportunity to discover the “big things” in a person’s life.<\/p>

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When you find an area of interest for others, be sure to follow it up with open-ended questions to get additional information. When the topic doesn’t seem to be going well (you don’t have to stick to one topic), move on to other topics that you can talk about more easily with others.<\/p>

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Stop thinking and listen for key words: If you listen carefully for key words, facts, opinions, feelings, and additional information, you’ll know what to say next. Don’t think about what you’re going to say next, because when you do, you won’t be able to hear the message! They don’t even know what they’re saying. The solution to this problem is to use active listening skills while others are speaking. This includes using good body language, especially eye contact, smiling and nodding.<\/p>

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Poor listening, poor memory, and poor concentration can all affect your conversation.<\/p>

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Show that you were listening by asking follow-up questions about what you heard. Look for or come up with examples that support or challenge the conversation. If you are not sure of what the other person is saying, or if you don’t understand what the other person is saying, you can ask for an example.<\/p>

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Summing up what others have said from time to time will help you remember what was said. Say something like, “Sounds like you’re saying\u2026 Is it?” This strengthens your listening skills and helps you remember the important details and points of the conversation.<\/p>

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Adventure conversation, courtesy inquiry, active listening, searching for information, and self-presentation make up a complete conversation sequence.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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