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When you communicate with strangers, you can improve your listening skills and remember important details and points through active participation. In addition, when you show interest in what he has to say, the other person will feel comfortable. Ask yourself, “How does this relate to my understanding and experience with this topic?” By combining the knowledge you already have with the new information you have acquired, you can ask new questions and ideas, and the conversation will flow easily. Pay attention to facts, details, and especially additional information as you direct the conversation to areas of mutual interest.<\/p>
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Don’t play devil’s advocate — that is, take an opposing position for the sake of an argument. This often leads to tense, competitive conversations, with winners and losers. If you make people feel stupid or embarrassed in front of their friends or colleagues in a group of strangers, you will not be welcomed.<\/p>
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In conversation, avoid taboo topics such as death, bloody crime, unfortunate events, personal scandal, or religious and ethical slander. Don’t look to others as someone to whom you can talk about your troubles. It’s best to start with optimistic, easy-to-answer questions.<\/p>
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When it comes to professional topics, don’t ask for free advice on your particular problem. For example, if you meet a dentist, don’t say, “By the way, you’re a dentist! What a coincidence! Well, I’ve got a bit of a pain in this tooth. While you’re here, will you take a look at it?” Most experts don’t mind telling people about their work, or even discussing it, but they don’t like being called for free.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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