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Asking personal questions often requires a unique sensitivity to the other person’s feelings, especially how well he accepts you. It usually begins with a softening question such as, “I’m sorry to ask this, but\u2026” “Or” If you don’t mind telling me, I’d love to know\u2026” .<\/p>
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If you don’t want to answer someone’s question, simply say, “I’d rather not answer that, if you don’t mind.” If someone asks you the price of something and you don’t feel comfortable answering, say, “I’m not sure. It was a gift.” Or you can blink and say, “It’s expensive” or “Not much.” After politely declining the other person’s question, you can start a new topic by asking a polite question.<\/p>
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Be careful about disclosing personal information about your past. However, if you are overly cautious, you can give the impression that you are hiding something. It is impossible to have intimate and meaningful relationships with others without the disclosure of personal information and mutual trust. Trust is based on a willingness to disclose your personal information to others. Of course, under special circumstances, such as at work, there are feelings that are best kept to themselves. But if you apply this caution to your personal life, the results can be devastating. Shying away from sharing your feelings with others can lead to a life of loneliness and isolation.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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