{"id":30,"date":"2021-01-18T12:02:04","date_gmt":"2021-01-18T04:02:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/commonly-used-closed-and-open-courtesy-questions\/"},"modified":"2021-01-18T12:02:04","modified_gmt":"2021-01-18T04:02:04","slug":"commonly-used-closed-and-open-courtesy-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rogen.us\/en\/commonly-used-closed-and-open-courtesy-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"\u5e38\u7528\u7684\u5c01\u95ed\u5f0f\u548c\u5f00\u653e\u5f0f\u793c\u8282\u6027\u95ee\u9898"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5c01\u95ed\u6027\u95ee\u9898\u901a\u5e38\u7528\u4e8e\u6253\u7834\u50f5\u5c40\uff0c\u4e86\u89e3\u4e00\u4e9b\u57fa\u672c\u4e8b\u5b9e\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u7d27\u8ddf\u7740\u7684\u5f00\u653e\u6027\u95ee\u9898\u624d\u66f4\u6709\u6548\u3002\u5f00\u653e\u6027\u793c\u8282\u95ee\u9898\u901a\u5e38\u8981\u6c42\u4e00\u4e2a\u8be6\u7ec6\u7684\u7b54\u6848\uff0c\u9f13\u52b1\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u4ea4\u8c08\u3002\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u8fd9\u7ed9\u4ed6\u4eba\u4e00\u4e2a\u8bb2\u8ff0\u4e8b\u5b9e\u3001\u89c2\u70b9\u3001\u611f\u53d7\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\u3002\u66f4\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u4ed6\u4f1a\u81ea\u613f\u7ed9\u4f60\u5927\u91cf\u7684\u4fe1\u606f\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Closed questions are usually used to break the deadlock and understand some basic facts, but the open questions that follow are more effective.&nbsp;Open etiquette questions usually require a detailed answer and encourage others to talk.&nbsp;In addition, it gives others an opportunity to tell facts, opinions, and feelings.&nbsp;More importantly, he will voluntarily give you a lot of information.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5c01\u95ed\u6027\u95ee\u9898\u7ecf\u5e38\u8fd9\u6837\u95ee\uff1a\u201c\u662f\u5417\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u771f\u7684\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u8c01\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u54ea\u513f\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u54ea\u4e2a\uff1f\u201d<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Closed questions are often asked like this: &#8220;Really?&#8221; &#8220;Really?&#8221; &#8220;Who?&#8221; &#8220;Where?&#8221; &#8220;Which?&#8221;<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f00\u653e\u6027\u95ee\u9898\u901a\u5e38\u8fd9\u6837\u95ee\uff1a\u201c\u600e\u4e48\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u4ec0\u4e48\u65b9\u5f0f\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u4f60\u600e\u4e48\u53c2\u4e0e\uff1f\u201d\u201c\u6211\u8981\u600e\u4e48\u505a\uff1f\u201d<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Open-ended questions usually ask: &#8220;How?&#8221; &#8220;Why?&#8221; &#8220;Which way?&#8221; &#8220;How do you participate?&#8221; &#8220;How do I do it?&#8221;<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5c01\u95ed\u5f0f\u95ee\u9898\uff1a\u53ea\u8981\u7528\u201c\u662f\u201d\u3001\u201c\u4e0d\u662f\u201d\u7b49\u51e0\u4e2a\u5b57\u56de\u7b54\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Closed questions: Just use &#8220;yes&#8221; and &#8220;no&#8221; to answer questions.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f00\u653e\u5f0f\u95ee\u9898\uff1a\u9700\u8981\u8be6\u7ec6\u56de\u7b54\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Open-ended questions: Questions that need to be answered in detail.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5c01\u95ed\u5f0f\u5b9e\u4f8b\uff1a\u4f60\u4f4f\u8fd9\u9644\u8fd1\u5417\uff1fClosed example: Do you live near here?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                       \u4f60\u559c\u6b22\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5403\u7684\u5417\uff1fDo you like these foods?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                      \u73b0\u5728\u51e0\u70b9\u4e86\uff1fwhat time is it now?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                      \u4f60\u8981\u53bb\u516c\u56ed\u5417\uff1fAre you going to the park?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                      \u4f60\u4ec0\u4e48\u65f6\u5019\u5230\u7684\uff1fWhen did you arrive?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                     \u4f60\u4ece\u54ea\u6765\u7684\uff1fWhere are you from?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                      \u4f60\u559c\u6b22\u5446\u5728\u8fd9\u513f\u5417\uff1fDo you like to stay here?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                    \u8fd9\u662f\u4f60\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u6765\u8fd9\u513f\u5417\uff1fIs this your first time here?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5f00\u653e\u5f0f\u95ee\u9898\u5b9e\u4f8b\uff1a\u4f60\u662f\u600e\u4e48\u627e\u5230\u73b0\u5728\u79df\u7684\u516c\u5bd3\u7684\uff1f<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Open-ended question example: How did you find the apartment you rent now?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                             \u4f9d\u4f60\u770b\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e2a\u56fd\u5bb6\uff08\u57ce\u5e02\uff0c\u5927\u5b66\u7b49\uff09\u5728\u54ea\u4e9b\u65b9\u9762\u53d1\u751f\u4e86\u53d8\u5316\uff1f<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                             In your opinion, in what ways has this country (city, university, etc.) changed?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                             \u4f60\u662f\u600e\u4e48\u53c2\u4e0e\u8fd9\u4e2a\u5de5\u4f5c\u7684\uff1fHow did you get involved in this work?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                             \u4f60\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u51b3\u5b9a\u642c\u5230\u90a3\uff1fWhy did you decide to move there?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                            \u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u98ce\u628a\u4f60\u5439\u5230\u6211\u4eec\u5c0f\u9547\u6765\u7684\uff1fWhat brought you to our town?<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">                            \u4f11\u606f\u7684\u65f6\u5019\u4f60\u559c\u6b22\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\uff1fWhat do you like to do during rest?<\/p>    <p 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   <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember to ask open-ended questions after closed-ended questions.&nbsp;Ask some direct, simple questions.&nbsp;When meeting a stranger for the first time, most people prefer to answer some of the questions they expect and easy to answer, rather than difficult and complicated questions that get them into trouble.&nbsp;Most people feel that others pay attention to him in a friendly way and show sincere concern, which is a compliment to him.&nbsp;Usually this way the other person will be more willing to talk.&nbsp;where do you come from?&nbsp;You can answer like &#8220;I am growing up, but in the past 5 years I have lived&#8230;&#8221; The information we voluntarily provide is called additional information.<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5982\u679c\u6709\u4eba\u95ee\u201c\u4f60\u662f\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\u5de5\u4f5c\u7684\uff1f\u201d\u7edd\u5927\u591a\u6570\u4eba\u4f1a\u89c9\u5f97\u4e0d\u8212\u670d\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u4f1a\u89c9\u5f97\u4f60\u5f88\u8001\u5957\u6216\u5728\u63a8\u65ad\u4ed6\u4eec\u4ee5\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e3a\u751f\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e0d\u559c\u6b22\u8c08\u8bba\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u4ecd\u7136\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528\u4e00\u4e24\u4e2a\u8bcd\u56de\u7b54\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u7136\u540e\u63d0\u51fa\u4e00\u4e9b\u4f60\u60f3\u8981\u8c08\u7684\u8bdd\u9898\u3002\u6bd4\u5982\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u8bf4\uff0c\u201c\u6211\u9760\u5728\u94f6\u884c\u505a\u5ba2\u6237\u4ee3\u7406\u8c0b\u751f\uff0c\u4f46\u662f\u6211\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u7231\u597d\u662f\u6cd5\u5f0f\u70f9\u8c03\uff01\u201d<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If someone asks, &#8220;What do you do?&#8221; Most people will feel uncomfortable, they will think you are old-fashioned or infer what they do for a living.&nbsp;If you don\u2019t like to talk about your work, you can still answer such questions in one or two words.&nbsp;Then propose some topics you want to talk about.&nbsp;For example, you can say, &#8220;I earn a living as a customer agent in a bank, but my real hobby is French cooking!&#8221;<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8bb8\u591a\u4eba\u4e0d\u559c\u6b22\u544a\u8bc9\u522b\u4eba\u4ed6\u4eec\u505a\u4ec0\u4e48\u7684\u4eba\u4e5f\u4f1a\u4e3a\u5176\u4ed6\u7684\u5e38\u89c1\u95ee\u9898\u611f\u5230\u4e0d\u5b89\u3002<\/p>    <p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many people who don&#8217;t like to tell others what they do are also upset by other common 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