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5 seconds! That’s all the time you have to make a good first impression. Carnegie said, “The sweetest sound in any language is a person’s name.” When you remember someone’s name, it makes them feel happy and often makes them feel important and special. Most of the time, we forget someone’s name because we’re not paying attention to what they’re saying about themselves. But lack of interest is the worst reason for not hearing someone’s name.<\/p>
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To succeed in 5 seconds, use these 5 second strategies to remember names:<\/p>
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Second 1: Focus on the other person’s introduction<\/p>
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SEC: Don’t think about what to say, listen for the name<\/p>
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second 3: loudly repeat the name<\/p>
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second 4: Think about if you know anyone with the same name<\/p>
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second 5: Call the person by name during and at the end of the conversation<\/p>
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This is the moment you’ve been waiting for, so don’t miss it because you’re thinking about yourself or what you’re going to say next. Listen to every word, and if you don’t hear it, say, “I’m sorry, I didn’t catch your name.” If his name is unusual or you’re not sure what he’s talking about, ask, “What word is it? I want to make sure.” 3. Always repeat the person’s name to make sure you hear it correctly. Instantly imagine his name appearing on his forehead or associating it with his facial features. It sounds weird, but it really works. Repeating the name has several other benefits. First, it makes the other person feel like you’re paying attention and trying to remember the name, which is flattering. Second, if you make a mistake, others can correct you. 4. Connect their name to someone you used to know so you’ll remember them better. 5. During a conversation you can say “Pat, when you say you\u2026” “Or” John, what made you decide\u2026” . Personalizing a conversation with a person’s name can enhance your memory and recall ability the next time you meet.<\/p>
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When I’m at a party and meet someone I’ve met before but can’t remember their name, what should I do to avoid the awkwardness of saying, “I forgot your name”? Ask your host or someone else to name your guests for you. 2. When you are having a conversation, listen carefully for the other guest to say his or her name and immediately make an associative memory. 3. If possible, glance at the guest list or seating arrangement and see the printed list to help you remember it. Another surefire way to do this is to introduce yourself again, “Hello, remember me? I’m Don. We were at\u2026 Seen.” In most cases, the person will thank you for saying your name and will be willing to do the same. If the person doesn’t say his or her name, simply ask, “And your name is\u2026”<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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