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There are several factors that affect the speaker and make it difficult for the listener to understand what the speaker is saying. The first factor is that for various reasons, some listeners are reluctant to change. Some people tend to stick to certain habitual patterns of thinking, feeling, and acting. They feel grounded in fixed ways of thinking without fear of being taken advantage of. Having an attitude of “not believing that others are safe” reinforces resistance to change.<\/p>
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Sometimes you compete for someone’s attention and it bothers the other person that they no longer want to listen to you and instead the other participant may be minding his or her own business and won’t pay attention to your conversation. Because he is distracted, he may miss your ideas and arguments, which can lead to misunderstandings. A sign of distraction is when someone asks unnecessary questions, makes irrelevant comments, or brings up something you’ve talked about or answered about before. These are all signs that the other person is no longer in sync with your thinking and is not ready to adopt or consider your point of view.<\/p>
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You may assume that others know and understand many things. When the other person remains silent, nods mechanically, and hints at acceptance or understanding, it reinforces your unfounded assumptions and encourages you to continue thinking that he is with you. When the listener finally loses track of what you’re talking about, it can get pretty awkward. You’ll feel like you’re talking to yourself, and the listener will feel like an idiot.<\/p>
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The degree to which a man maintains his independence of thought determines his receptiveness to outside influence and persuasion. Such people often have a low receptivity and will not readily accept your point of view.<\/p>
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To get others to consider your idea, being direct about the purpose of your conversation encourages collaboration and acceptance. “I tell you this because\u2026” “Or” I’d love to talk to you\u2026” . This kind of openness creates a sense of trust, which makes the other person feel more comfortable responding. If you can’t explain the purpose of your question, the other person may feel nervous, suspicious, or uncomfortable. State your reason for asking and the other person will want to answer your question without being overly cautious.<\/p>
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Another important factor in acceptance is respect. Most of our attitudes and feelings are silent expressions. When you ask for someone’s opinion, you are giving them a compliment because you are saying that you value their opinion.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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