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Do you run out of words after you say hello, make a comment, or ask a question? There are six key factors that will allow you to maintain a conversation naturally and easily.<\/p>
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\u00b7 Focus on your environment.<\/p>
\u00b7\u5e73\u8861\u53cc\u5411\u7684\u4fe1\u606f\u4ea4\u6362\u3002<\/p>
\u00b7 Balanced two-way information exchange.<\/p>
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\u00b7 Discuss topics important to you.<\/p>
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\u00b7 Change topic with additional information.<\/p>
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\u00b7 Seek out common interests and experiences.<\/p>
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Key # 1: Focus on your environment. You can talk to other people about all aspects of your current environment. Once you’re familiar with your environment, it can provide you with more topics to talk about without you having to think about what to talk about next. Simply observe your surroundings and find questions to ask or things to comment on. Look around instead of at yourself. Think of your environment as a series of concentric circles. If you can focus your conversation on the current context, then you can easily expand your topic to the next context. For example, if you’re in an adult education class, the classroom is your immediate environment, or the center of a concentric circle. After you’ve discussed your education class, you can expand the conversation to the next circle, like a school or neighborhood. Concentrate on areas around you, such as other classes, college campuses, local restaurants, movie theaters, clubs, etc. As you continue the conversation, you can expand the conversation to include where you live, the reason for your classes, nearby recreation areas, your city or suburb of interest. When you realize that there are plenty of topics to talk about, you won’t feel overwhelmed.<\/p>
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Key # 2: The “point of interest” is an area where you and your partner have a strong interest and enthusiasm in conversing. Points of interest can include work, a new position, hobbies, career goals, upcoming travel, sports, one’s contribution to society, and even sex. Points of interest are topics and activities that people are really interested in. A hobby can be a lifelong interest, a temporary hobby, a current hobby, anything that interests the two of you!<\/p>
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It’s important to discover other people’s interests as quickly as possible, because having a strong interest is a great way to keep the conversation going. One goal of asking polite questions is to find out what interests the other person. When you know what other people are interested in, you’ll know how to “unpick” them, and you’ll find out what they think is important. You find out where he puts his time, money and effort, and what he values. It’s rich material for conversation and for you to understand the other person’s inner world. In addition, one way to get someone to open up is to seek out common goals, experiences, and ideas.<\/p>
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How does > discover other people’s interests? When searching for other people’s interests, try to get information from polite questions. When you receive an enthusiastic response, express your interest in the topic. This doesn’t necessarily mean you have a strong interest in the topic, but it can help if you have a moderate or mild degree of curiosity. Often what people are wearing or carrying is an indicator of interest. Look for sports equipment, books, jewelry, clothing, or any other clues that might give you a clue about someone else’s interest.<\/p>
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People often express their interest through “iceberg” statements, that is, they reveal a “tip” of the conversation, waiting for the other person to ask for details. Listen carefully for additional information and ask open-ended follow-up questions to encourage people to continue talking about what they’re talking about. You could say, “I’ve been curious about this for a long time. How did you get involved?”<\/p>
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How do you show your interest to others? It’s not enough just to find other people’s interests. Remember, good conversation is balanced, so be prepared to express your interest as well. Share your interests and hobbies. When you share your interests with others, be as detailed as possible. Provide plenty of examples of the event, time, and place so the other person can get more information and questions. For example, I am very interested in\u2026 Feel really excited; You know, I’m gonna end up\u2026 ; I’m really looking forward to this weekend because\u2026 ; I just finished\u2026 ; I’m going to start a big project\u2026 . It’s worth noting that if the person is unfamiliar with what you’re saying, don’t use jargon or technical terms. Be careful not to talk too much about yourself and take up too much time at the expense of others. It’s okay to let others know what you’re interested in, but be aware that they don’t have to hear everything you say. If you get an encouraging sign to continue (a few follow-up questions, for example), continue your conversation until you feel it’s time to hand over the microphone to someone else.<\/p>
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Seek common interests. Remember, talking is a direct way to learn, and you can learn a lot about things you might not have experienced before, such as going on long trips or skydiving. When you share experiences with your partner, you both benefit from exchanging them. So remember Carnegie’s simplicity: discover the really big things in other people’s lives and encourage them to talk. Look for other people’s interests and reveal your own so the conversation can easily continue.<\/p>
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Key 3: Balanced two-way information exchange. In a good conversation, there should be a conscious exchange of information between the two parties, which should be balanced between the listener and the speaker. Good conversation is like a passing game. For a conversation to be maintained and continued, the participant must be an active conversationalist as well as an active listener. Have a conversation with both. When people talk, they should exchange basic personal information, opinions, ideas, facts and details at the same level. But this is not meant to be a tit-for-tat exchange, but a fundamental balance of conversation. Doing so will foster mutual trust. “Good listeners” may feel that they don’t need to disclose information about themselves, that it’s boring and annoying. If one participant reveals too much and the other little, it’s an unbalanced conversation. An unbalanced conversation can make both parties feel uncomfortable. One person may be thinking, “I’ve been talking and he just sits there and doesn’t say anything!” And the other person might think, “He’s so annoying, he won’t stop talking, this is an endless blather — I almost faint!” It’s easy to understand why an unbalanced conversation can often lead to a bad impression. If there is a balanced exchange of ritualistic information, small talk, and deeply personal information, participants feel they are getting to know each other in a natural, unthreatening way. Your relationship will take a step forward.<\/p>
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Key # 4: It’s important to let others know what’s important and meaningful to you. The best way to express your opinions and attitudes about other people is to discuss topics that you care about and are interested in. It can be religion, politics, current events, etc., but whatever the topic you choose, take a proactive approach to expressing your feelings and thoughts. One thing to note: when telling important things about yourself, be careful not to tell the other person everything, otherwise it will be a stump speech. Don’t moan about something that neither you nor the other person can help, and don’t reveal anything really personal, especially in the early stages of a conversation. Tell your friends something more personal. Wait until you have established a mutual trust before finding the best time to say this.<\/p>
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Key 5: Use the cue to change the subject. Good conversation is the intersection of topics and ideas. It’s generally better to keep the conversation within relevant subject areas. If you’re moving into a new area, you can say, “Back to business\u2026” This brings us back to the subject. If it’s the first time you’re meeting, doing some preparation ahead of time will help you have a good conversation. Instead of poking around, find out for yourself what your conversationalist’s personal interests are. When you sit down for lunch, simply say, “I hear you’re good at gardening. How long have you been doing this?” “Or” I hear you’re a\u2026 I’d love to know what you did.” If you know nothing about his interests, pay special attention to additional information. Use his additional information to ask questions. The most common way to change the subject is to ask closed questions or make comments based on the clues given earlier. You can change the subject by asking open-ended questions based on clues you or the other person has given you.<\/p>
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Sometimes you may just want to change the subject for a while. All you have to do is say, “Sorry, but I have to butt in.” Then make a comment or ask a question. Express your ideas as quickly as you can, and then quickly return to your original topic of discussion. Make sure the conversation is focused. Constantly changing the subject gives the impression that you don’t care. It also shows that you’re bored with the problem and don’t want to talk about it. If the other person gives you a short answer, it’s probably because he doesn’t want to talk about the subject. Watch out for a cold response. Conversations that are tawdry or unpleasant can make people feel uncomfortable, and it’s okay to say “let’s move on to a happier subject” without any emotion at all. You’ve suggested a change of topic, so the ball is in your court. Take up the conversation quickly, and start a new conversation with a comment or open question, based on some clues or information you’ve received before.<\/p>
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Key 6: It’s important to let your conversation partner know that you agree with him. Just as you meet someone who you feel is a good fit, understands you, and is the same type of person, respond in some way, directly or indirectly, to let your partner know that you are listening and that you understand and agree with what they are saying.<\/p>
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A quick interject is a way to let the person you’re talking to know that you care about the topic. If you don’t let the other person know that you care about the details of the conversation, he or she may assume that you’re not interested in the topic.<\/p>
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When your experience is similar to that of the other person, you also provide him with some information about yourself so that he can understand you. Most people want to know what interests you have in common with them. As you meet people and discover your common interests and experiences, you can take time to develop a closer relationship. If you have enough in common, there’s a good chance you have common interests. When you see something you have in common, tell the other person immediately. It is the foundation of a friendship.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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